By their very nature, human beings are so capricious, so complex, so delightfully contradictory, that they deserve not only our consideration, but our reconsideration--and our unwavering determination to withhold our opinion until we have engaged with them in every possible setting at every possible hour.

Amor Towles
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No one does us like we do ourselves. Education and self-reflection are two of the most important tools we can use to become the people we want to be. We all do things we don’t like, and we all do things we love. The key is finding balance between those two extremes. That balance, though, is easier said than done, and it’s not always easy to figure out what that balance is for ourselves or others.

Source: A Gentleman In Moscow

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